By Chris Chew
Flirting with girls using body language is a very subtle and an exciting seduction game when you are anticipating the results and then you get it right away. You probably already know some of the body languages women use to flirt with men like tossing her hair and pursing her lips while gazing or glancing at you.
However, do you know that girls are also looking at body signals from men as well and this is where the guys can display flirting signals which are picked up by women either conciously or subconciously. Whatever way, it works!
You see, if men make the right moves and send the right flirting body language, then it does not matter much how we look or how much money we have because our body language communication will make girls chemically and emotionally attracted to us! Yes, flirting with your body language flirting can get you great results!
The Eye Contact - Most men will usually look away when the girl they are interested in glance their way. That is why they are the losers in the dating and flirting game. Girls are attracted to men who are confident and self assured, so when you look away, that is the body language of an insecured man.
Nothing shows confidence like meeting a women's eyes confidently and holding your gaze steadily. This shows strength and courage on your part. When she sees you gazing at her with full eye contact, then look down and smile, you know you've got it made and the time to approach her is now.
If she looks away from you but doesn't smile, approach her anyway. This is because by the fact that she met your eyes for a second or two shows interest on her part too. So why not give it a shot!
Head Drop Flirt - The Head Drop is a flirting technique used after the assured eye contact. It is done when she met your gaze and then you drop your head to one side and put on a half smile as if to say, "Come and get me!". Please don't say that out loud or it will be a very corny pick up line that is sure to backfire. Just think of it and act it out in your body language.
Open Body Language - The truth is that many men stand or sit with their arms crossed, their legs close together and their faces anxious and nervous when meeting beautiful women for the first time. If you are one of those guys, then your body language is telling her that she is not welcomed.
Why not welcome the girl you like into your world. Have your arms open and simply lean back, place your legs apart and relax, your demeanour warm and inviting. Never project the body closed body language that tells her to stay away from you because you are a closed and uptight man although you are not.
Lean Away From Her - Now that you have approached and is talking to her while seated, show her your interest with confidence by leaning away. Leaning away is a very powerful trait of a confident man, the self assured posture of the alpha male.
This posture forces her to lean towards you and thus putting you in the position of the dominant male. It also communicates signals to her that she has to earn your interest and that you are not going to just give it away. You know what, these kind of confident alpha male body language flirt really drive women wild over you!
Of course, when things are going smoothly and you are starting to develop some sort of bonding with her, then you want to lean towards her now and then. From here, you may want to take your flirting to another higher level.
Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at his sites at Why Are Girls Attracted To Alpha Males and Penis Enhancement
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