By Tanya Haden Tebb
Many women out there are asking for tips on how to make a guy fall in love with them and how to attract a man, but before I tell you exactly how it is done, you must understand one very important point. There is a guy out there who will fall in love with you just for you, no games and no manipulation required! This is the guy for you, the one with whom you will share a happy and fulfilling future.
The guy you ‘make' fall in love with you, you will eventually discover is not exactly what you were looking for anyway. His devotion and adoration will eventually seem empty and meaningless, because you will know that you had to orchestrate the situation. You may even have to portray yourself to be someone you are not to achieve your goal and in the long run we all want to be loved for who we are, by someone who finds our little faults endearing, who cherishes our very existence and has faith in us even when we lack faith in ourselves.
All that said…if you are still determined to know the tricks of making a guy fall in love with you, read on…
1. Get to Know Him
Find out what his likes and dislikes are. His beliefs are also important. You can easily find out this information by;
• casually chatting to people who know him,
• observing him, and
• talking to him yourself.
Ask about his sentiments and either agree with them, or say you're not altogether decided on that point yet, how has he reached his conclusion? This will open up a whole realm of conversation and if he feels he has converted you to his way of thinking it will be a real boost for his ego. You can go as far as to ask whether there are any books he can recommend on a particular subject. Buy them, read them…feed his passion!
2. Check out Who He Is Checking Out
Observe which girls he is checking out. Do the girls in short skirts, tight jeans or elegant scarves turn his head? Once you see what gets his attention, you know how to dress to impress him.
3. Hang out Where He Hangs Out
By now, you know his likes and dislikes and where he likes to hang out. It is time to start bumping into him by ‘chance'. You know, unintentionally! You are in the places he likes to frequent, you're dressed in what attracts him, you have the same beliefs – oh my! He is beginning to think - Wow! This girl might really be the one!
4. Enlist a Friend
Having mastered steps 1, 2 and 3, this guy is probably already eating out of your hand, but if he is not, sorry…maybe he is just not that into you, I suggest moving on. However, chances are he's pretty into you by now and a little competition is just what the doctor ordered. Even if he is already REALLY into you by now, a bit of healthy competition will really top the charts.
The more attractive your male friend the better, get him to strike up a conversation with the guy you want to fall for you. You walk past and your friend says something along those lines of, "Wow! Check out that babe! Any guy would be lucky to have her!"
The great thing about this move is that if your friend comes back and tells you the guy said "Nah, I prefer that one over there!" You know that boat has already sailed and it is definitely time to move on.
WARNING: It is not that hard to get a guy to fall in love with you. With these 4 simple steps you could have him eating out of your hand within a couple of weeks. BUT, I beg you to reconsider. What you will be doing is manipulating him, plain and simple and you are better than that, you deserve better than that. Why not go for gold…the guy who falls in love with you because you are who you are. The one you can share your deepest secrets and desires with, who finds you irresistible just for being YOU. You are worth it and he IS out there!
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