By Sara Ryan
He was my first boyfriend, and there was a feeling that he'll be the last. We have not yet celebrated a year of being together. There are petty misunderstandings, but we are trying to work it out. However, this one was really serious. He doesn't talk to me for a week already. I was trying to reach him, but he's ignoring me. I am not losing hope that we'll get through this, but there are times that I get too emotional. Maybe because he was my first serious relationship, that's why I am so affected. My friends are telling me to take it easy, and let my boyfriend think first. They believe that giving him time alone would really help. I could not help myself, but cry. There are times that I cannot even concentrate on what I am doing. That big fight was really getting into my head. I am messed up.
I told my Mom the whole story, and she was really sorry about what happen. He knows my boyfriend very well, because we grew up together. Our Moms are good friends, way back in their college years. My mom was also hurting; she witnessed my nights of endless crying. My bedtime dramas irritated my Dad. He cannot understand why I was really in love with my first boyfriend. He keeps on telling me that there are a lot of guys out there. I guess that he was just trying to make things easy to accept, but he also knows the severity of pain. My Mom was more comforting compared to my Dad, and that was really obvious. Last night when I was sobbing my Mom knocks and entered my room. She hugged me and placed a bowl beside my bed. The big bowl was holding some floating candles and petals of red roses. I wondered when she dropped something from a small bottle. I saw the label of essential oils. Soothing aroma started to cover my whole room. It was calming when I continuously inhale the scent brought by the essential oils. My mom advised me to keep the bowl beside my bed until the next day. It was a calming experience deep within. The essential oils brought me this emotional healing. It was relief from the days that I am really enduring heartbreak. I am not totally healed, but I am getting into it day by day. This essential oil is really helping me with this moving on.
My friends noticed a changed in me a week after I started using essential oils as a scent inside my room. They keep on what makes the sudden change in me. I am hesitant to answer them, but I simply said, "My mom and her bowl." They are puzzled with my answer, but that was the truth. It was essential oil that relieves my depressing, feeling for that boy. I am more positive that he'll came back if he's done with he's own emotional therapy. For now, I am patiently waiting and hoping for the best.
Sara Ryan writes regularly for TIR Massage Stone, they carry such Pure Essential Oils as Lavender Oil, among many others.
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