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| How Good is Your Friendship Personality? | October 11, 2009, 4:29 am | visits: 28 | wordcount: 575
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By CD Mohatta
What kind of friend you are? What kind of friends do you have? Whether your friendships will last? Can you make good friends? Are you a true friends? There are many questions about friendship. Why not try quizzes to find out about your friendship personality? You will enjoy trying quizzes and sharing with your friends.
What do I mean by friendship personality? Do you remember meeting people, you never liked right from first meeting? And there were some you loved right from the word-Go. There is an attraction and openness about some people which we like and we want to become friends with them. They are honest and reliable. They look like caring persons and have good values. We love them for that. Such people can be relied upon. We feel that such friends will be with us and will always be there for us. We also enjoy their togetherness and personality. You will find their faces smiling most of the times and such people avoid making fun of friends.
Such people have positive friendship personality. They are good human beings and value others and their friendships. They attract friends in droves. We have to act friendly and outgoing with others to tell them that we are open for a friendly relationship. Our body language has to speak about our openness and our willingness to connect. Only after we develop these traits, shall we look friendly. Being an extrovert can be an art at times. But it will improve your friendship personality to great extent.
Most of us visit gardens. Many times, we see the gardener working. How many of compliment and stop by the Gardner to ask about his life? We visit museums. Do we bother to meet the Administrator and congratulate for the good work being done by him/her? We come across many people in our life such as milkman, sales persons etc., but we never try to connect with them as human beings. We are always in a hurry to finish whatever it is and move.
Does this attitude connect us with people? Does it make us happy? With little change in our approach, we can become very friendly persons and get happiness as a reward. Ask a cabbie driver about his/her life and you will wonder about the kinds of problems these persons face. Our own problems will begin looking small. But we are always occupied. We have no time.
If you have lot many problems and find life tough, try this. Enter cancer ward of your nearby hospital. Meet some patients and talk to them. It will give you a new insight about life and the struggles. Reach out to people and be friends with them. Share your life with them and listen to their stories. You will be amazed at life. We forget that our world does not consist of only our family, friends, our work place and ourselves. Our world has many more people. The only difference is that we can ignore them. But that does not make us better human beings. We become better by connecting with people who have no work with us. That kind of relationship is totally selfless, pure and beautiful.
How does this attitude help? By acting friendly, we get happiness. We give happiness to others. We have no ulterior motive except giving happiness, and that makes us feel very good. That connects us with others as human beings. Do you know about your friendliness? Think more about it.
The author writes text messages and advises for internet and social networking content like photo effects and myspace comments. He also writes quizzes on subjects like fun personality, etc.
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