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| How Do You Find If You Are in Love | September 20, 2009, 12:28 pm | visits: 40 | wordcount: 639
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By CD Mohatta
When we are in love the world looks different. Everything looks good. We look at the world differently then those who are not in love. We love everything. The flowers smell better, the food tastes better, and the nature looks benevolent. How about our body? What kind of changes does love bring in our body?
The hearty is considered center of love. Every poet who has written on love talks of heart. I do not know if heart has anything to do with love- at least no medical professional will agree to that. For them the heart is only a pumping machine for blood. But for lovers heart becomes the center.
If you are in love, have you observed your heart beats? Do they not increase when you think of your lover? Does your heart not beat much faster when you are waiting to meet them? How about the heart beats when you are with them. The heart seems to beat much faster at that time, isn't it? That is why poets write so much about heart.
That is why all Valentine decorations are heart shaped. the heart goes berserk when you are in love. It is as if it has forgotten about its pumping function and got busier expressing love. A look at the picture of your lover makes the heart beat faster. A touch, smell of their body, their voice, all can accelerate the heart. I do not know if any body has done any research about why heart behaves like this. Do emotions come from heart? Must be so otherwise whythe heart acts funny when we are in love?
Our walks become slower, we begin speaking in low voice, begin listening to slow love tunes, we begin caring more about our appearance and we become gentle with everyone around us. Why all this- because we are in love. Truly, being in love is a great feeling.
What are The signs of romantic love?
All of us talk of love. Most of us have heard of romantic love. Few of us have felt romantic love. I say few because everyone does not fall in deep romantic love. For many of us it is simple relationship that goes little beyond friendship. But in romantic love the relationship is totally different. Such love gives great pleasure and immense pain after break-up. The pain may at times be so much that one may regret ever falling in romantic love. How it feels when we are in deep romantic love?
We find everything about our partner romantic. Their talk, their walk, their smile and their laugh everything sounds good to us. We try of various ways to please our partner. We go to a great extent to fulfill their desires and make them happy. This is a big motivator. Many people have achieved great heights in their life because they wanted to do something for their partner. That is why it said that behind every successful man there is a woman. We feel highly confident and self-assured when we are in romantic love. It is considered an achievement. We feel that we have done something great. We lose sense of reality. We live in a dream world most of the times. Our thoughts are always centered on our partner. This can be very dangerous in some cases. After the love disappears, it becomes very difficult to adjust with life again. We become adventurous. Our mind finds way to be with our partner despite major obstacles. Our moral values may also change at times. Our body undergoes hormonal changes. Our reproductive hormones increase and we are most of the times in a state of excitement. We feel that we are one with our partner in all the ways. We become dependent upon them for getting pleasure and our earlier hobbies undergo change. This causes great ache after break- up.
The author writes text messages and advises for internet and social networking content like myspace graphics and myspace comments. He also writes quizzes on subjects like personality, etc.
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