By Gerald Wiley
Trying to make your ex return your calls can be one of the most frustrating things about breaking up. If you only you could get to speak to them then maybe you could sort things out. Problem is they just won't return your calls and give you a chance. So, how do you make your ex return your calls?
Believe it or not but there ARE techniques to use when you leave your message that will make your ex compelled to call you back. In the popular ebook The Magic Of Making Up, you can learn how and when to use them, and much more advice to get your relationship back on track.
So how can you make your ex return your calls? Well it is a very common question, so I will give you the answer to that one for free. This is just one of the many techniques outlined in The Magic Of making Up, in which you get a full strategy on relighting the fire and keeping it burning.
If you use this free technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call. Therefore you should use this advice with caution, and ideally have a proper strategy in place.
Before I tell you the actual words to make your ex return your calls, let's go over what you should NOT say. Saying the wrong thing can cause irreparable damage and puts you in a very negative psychological position.
Don't plead with them, and say things like "Please, please call me, I HAVE to talk to you". Secondly don't pretend there is some kind of emergency that you must talk to them about, such as "Please call me as soon as you get this, it is an emergency". These 2 approaches are guaranteed NOT to work. It should be pretty obvious why.
So now lets look at how to make your ex return your calls. The key is to take advantage of their curiosity and self interest - 2 of the most powerful forces in the human mind. Appeal to these 2 senses and you will soon reap the benefits.
Here is an example:
"Hi Dave. It's Janet. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."
Remember to speak in a friendly tone.
Now, can you see how this appeals to both their sense of curiosity and self interest? He won't be able to resist calling back because his mind will be awash with questions like "What did I do?" and "What does she appreciate?"
An important note before you use this technique is to think up a plausible thing that they did for you that you appreciate. It doesn't have to anything major, but plausibility is VERY important here.
Setting up something they did for you is part of the overall strategy you should have in place before you call.
What this lesson from The Magic Of Making Up teaches is what you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than actually getting them to return your call.
Remember this is just one of the many valuable lessons you will learn from the Magic Of Making Up. Can your relationship afford to be without it?!
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