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| 3 Little Known Tips For Eliminating Shyness Around Women | February 2, 2007, 10:00 am | visits: 73 | wordcount: 566
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By Scott Patterson
There's good news- Eliminating your shyness around women can be fixed with very little effort.
For many guys shyness can be the major reason why they never approach a woman or make any attempt to attract them. In fact, shyness can cripple you to the point where you do nothing and watch other men go home with the beautiful women.
But it can be fixed!
Here are a few ways you can rise above your shyness and become a confident guy who is desired by ANY woman:
Tip #1- Remove all desires and expectations
The one reason guys are nervous around women is they place too many expectations on the outcome of the conversation. Instead of having fun with a woman, shy guys worry about asking for her number or going on a date.
Whenever you talk to a woman, just concentrate on the conversation. Be relaxed and don't worry about any outcome. Just think to yourself that you're talking to her and having fun.
You can easily reduce your shyness by telling yourself that you don't care about any outcome. It would be great if you got her number, but it's not the end of the world if you don't. Bottom line is you're talking to her just to have a little fun.
Tip #2- Have a clear idea of what you want from her
Now you might think I am contradicting myself by telling you to remove all expectations from the conversation then telling you to develop a clear idea of what you want.
But I think having a plan of action is a lot different from removing all desire. Let me explain…
While you want to avoid worrying too much about the outcome of a conversation, you should still figure out what type of outcome you want.
In other words, try to think of what you want to obtain by talking to her. Are you trying to have fun? Do you want her number? Do want to set up a date or sleep with her.
The more you can what you want, the more at ease you'll feel and find yourself steering the conversation to your outcomes.
Tip #3- Practice "Going for it"
One easy way to eliminate shyness around women is to practice as much as possible. In the last tip, I recommended you have a clear idea of what you want. Now when you know what you want, you'll find it easier to go for it.
But what if you still feel nervous around women?
Well my best advice is to keep practicing "going for it" with different women till you can get over your shyness and nervousness.
Like any other skill, learning how to attract women is something that must be practiced till you perfect it. If you take the time to practice your conversation skills and find out what works in different scenarios, you'll discover it's easy feel comfortable around women.
And once you feel comfortable, women will start to pick up on your confident personality.
Over a period of time, you can reduce your shyness by paying attention to the three tips that I described in this article. Ultimately you'll learn how to be confident around women and learn the things that make you attractive to them.
About the Author: Want to how to approach women with confidence and ease? If so, learn how you can grab a free copy and download Scott Patterson's free ebook: Seduction Secrets…Revealed!
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