By Scott Patterson
One of the hardest things about attracting women is to becoming comfortable with approaching them.
If you're like most men, just THINKING about walking up to a woman and initiating a conversation can be quite terrifying.
So what should you do?
It's simple- the best way to learn how to approach women is to APPROACH THEM!
Yes, I know it sounds simple. But many guys don't ever take that first step. All they do is stress out over what to say or try learning the 'perfect' routine. Instead of memorizing routines or reading tons of books, you'll get the best results by practicing your approaches.
Here's why...
Think of when you were in your high school Driver's Education class trying to learn how to drive an automobile. For hours the teacher would drone on about safety and the rules of the road. After awhile you thought you knew everything about driving until you got behind the wheel.
Then you suddenly realized that driving was A LOT harder then you thought. At first you were nervous, but eventually you learned how to drive really well (Hopefully).
Learning how to approach women is the same thing!
It's a skill that can be only learned through repetitive experiences. If you approach enough women, you'll start to learn what works and what doesn't.
Now I know you're probably nervous about the thought of being rejected or laughed at. If so, I'll let you on a little secret…
Every guy worries about this! Anybody who tells you different is lying to you.
Don't look at rejection as a bad thing. Instead think of it as a learning experience that will help you grow as a man. By being rejected you'll start to learn what DOESN'T work. Eventually you'll stumble on techniques which WILL work. Then being rejected will be worth it.
So when should you start approaching women?
The answer is NOW!
As I mentioned at the beginning of this article, guys waste too much of their valuable time sitting around learning how to succeed of women instead of trying out these theories themselves.
So I urge you to try to approach at least a few girls a day. You can ask them for the time, compliment them on something they're wearing or ask them a question. No matter what you say, just get out there and try something!
If you still can't think of what to say when you approach a woman, write some ideas down beforehand.
Bottom line- If you train yourself to approach multiple women in EVERY day, you'll start to develop your skills at attracting women and will virtually eliminate your fear of rejection.
About the Author: Want to know the #1 way to approach women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson's free ebook: Seduction Secrets…Revealed!, where he reveals a step-by-step system that will help you approach and attract beautiful women.
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