By Py Kim Conant
Single and married women both complain that on Super Bowl Sunday they feel abandoned or left out of the events of the day. However, Super Bowl Sunday is actually the best day for women, whether single or married, to have a girls' day-and-night out. Celebrate your freedom for the day, alone or with girlfriends.
Instead of trying to learn the rules of football game while sitting next to your man. Show him that you have a life with your girlfriends or your hobbies and interests.
If you decide to go out to attract men while the Super Bowl is on, here are a few American Geisha tips. The best tip ever for women on Super Bowl is do nothing, since there is nothing you can do to get a real Super Bowl fan to pay attention to you.
Instead of doing something (which the geisha knows is very masculine), as the Older Sister American Geisha, I would advise you to be (which the geisha knows is very feminine).
In football, when the quarterback throws a pass, the receiver who catches the ball must gently, carefully, cradle and accept the ball into his hands and body. Just as a woman makes her best catches when she relaxes, "is," and awaits the passes thrown by romantic quarterbacks, passes she can choose to cradle or let fall, incomplete.
Go to the pub with a girlfriend.
Participate very femininely in this testosterone-soaked environment by doing very little cheering or reacting to the game. If you've made yourself what I call Geisha Attractive by maximizing your beauty and your clothes and by expressing a classy-but-sexy femininity, all you have to do is be there.
Then all you have to do is to put yourself in a place when he (or they) will be able to notice you. You then do nothing. You are calm, comfortable, and somewhat attentive to the game, but more to your girlfriend.
Occasionally, you might pass near him (whoever he is) as you go the lady's room. Or you may catch his eye for a short moment. Most of the time you are simply beautiful, feminine, and attentive. He will continue to be absorbed by the game, perhaps hardly noticing you.
When the game ends or halftime comes, he (and others) will remember this beautiful, feminine, attentive woman who was there during the game.
Expect a flood of men, including him, to pay attention to you. Of course, you knew. An American Geisha doesn't have to do anything. If she will just be attentively attractive, she will attract men's attention.
About the Author: Py Kim Conant, the author of "Sex Secrets of an American Geisha : How to Attract, Satisfy, and Keep Your Man" (Hunter House). Sing up for Py's free newsletters at http://www.AmericanGeishaHouse.com for relationship, dating and sex tips
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