By Maureen Arnold
There are 5 great dating tips for men when it comes to meeting women, whether you are meeting women online, in a club or in the local bookstore. These 5 surefire dating tips were recently discussed by David Deangelo in his Interviews With Dating Gurus series while he was talking with well known dating coach David M.
The first C is CONFIDENCE. In the dating world, especially for men, confidence is a MUST. Confidence is what sets you apart from the rest of wanna-be alpha males out there. Wear confidence like a cloak, and you will be targeted by women as the alpha male every time. Confidence can be demonstrated in a physical manner by the way you talk and the way you walk. Make your movements slow and deliberate, your gaze firm and unflinching, your back straight, chest out and shoulders back. If you are standing in a club, put your drink at your side rather than in front of you like a shield. Practice a casual nod to acknowledge women and then let your gaze travel to other women to show her you can have your choice of the available goods.
Confidence can even be radiated when approaching and meeting women online. You can show confidence in your online profile or in an email. After you write something, read your writing out loud to make sure it sounds confident and strong. Use example to describe yourself, telling anecdotes that show your alpha male nature.
The second of the 5 C's of dating tips for men is CONTROL. Self-control, going from the area of dating to all areas of a man's life, is the beginning brick of a strong inner core that women will be instinctively attracted to. A single man must maintain control at all times. The single man must remain in control of the situation, control of his emotions and most importantly, control of his reactions and responses to situations. One great example of this is when a woman starts to mess with you, especially trying to make you jealous. One fantastic example of maintaining iron control is in a situation where a woman tries to make you jealous by talking about another man who wants to date her. In a case like this, simply tell her, "Well hey, you should go out with him!" And walk away. It will drive her insane.
Cocky Comedy is the next essential C in dating and meeting women. Use your sense of humor to show your confidence, bust her balls and keep her on her toes. This can be used anywhere, whether you are meeting women face to face or meeting women online. Especially if you are meeting women online, make fun of her for using the personals and make her feel like she a desperate, ugly woman! She will want to meet you quickly just to prove you wrong!
The fourth C of dating is CHALLENGE. Not challenge for you, the man, but challenge the woman. One of the most important things that David Deangelo conveys to men in all of his dating tips is that if a woman thinks you are an easy catch, or worse, caught, she will drop you like a hot potato. In person, you can convey that you are a challenge by maintaining an aloof nature, by "dismissing" her, by maintaining a "she has to fit into your schedule" kind of attitude. If you are meeting women online, you can convey this by telling her how busy you are, waiting a few days to call her, even breaking a date.
The last C in the dating tips given by David Deangelo and David M is CHARM. Charm is actually a combination of all the C's put together. When you exude confidence, when you are funny, challenging and in control, you cannot help but create an alpha male attraction that women will be drawn to like flies. That charm you will be putting out there is not something a woman can define, but meeting women online or in person, it is like an indefinable pheromone that will literally draw a woman to you even f she does not know why.
Out these 5 C's of dating together and you will find that what David Deangelo says in his Double Your Dating eBook is totally true - attraction is not a choice. Attraction is a gut level, instinctual reaction that does not necessarily depend on looks, stature or even sexual appeal. What men need to understand is that attraction mechanisms, for women, are completely different. Attraction, on an instinctual level for women relies on the alpha male status - simply put - the man she will be attracted to is the man who is in control, in charge and able to protect her, provide for her and even overpower her (watch the mating dance of any animal and you will know why I said that).
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