By Spencer Michaels
You can buy a woman flowers for the next ten years and it won't matter unless you make her FEEL an attraction to you. Women don't care how things work; they care how things make them feel. In all of the romance novels and soap operas women have been devouring since they were kids, the leading males are always untamable, strong men who sweep women off their feet.
This is the quality that many "jerks" have. Women don't like the fact that the guy is actually a jerk – it's just that jerks have a tendency to have more of this primal, uncontrollable dominance that the weaker, "nice" guys don't have. The sweet guy thing works only when a woman is in desperate need of attention. It can work with some women, but it will only temporarily keep her happy.
They can't help it fellas. They are simply responding to Mother Nature. Estrogen is a drug that induces feeling. It makes women want and need to feel everything. Testosterone is a hormone of aggression/achievement and dominance. The sooner we realize and accept these facts, the easier time we'll have understanding the dating world.
Women know it if you're not in touch with your strong inner "animal". They are programmed to sniff this out – and as soon as they do you'll be kicked to the curb (if you even make it near the curb). Men tend to use logic when trying to figure out how to attract women when in fact it's not a logical process at all. Trying to use logic to figure out women is the worst thing you can do. This is what frustrates so many guys about trying to attract women - they think, "I seem to do be doing everything right - why isn't it working?" In order to attract her and keep her interested you have to keep her inner animal aroused. It's an undeniable law of nature guys.
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