By Andres Munoz
Asking for a girl's phone number can feel like switching the lights with your eyes closed - you have to find out if you click. Asking for her phone number must be done with confidence and as if it's no big deal. Making a big deal out of it will only spook her and telegraph to her you are a weirdo to be avoided. Some women are friendly, but they are hesitant to give their phone numbers. Most of them are just being careful and some claim that they want to avoid being labeled as "too-easy". But in reality, women consider the phone number exchange as a commitment rather than an act of friendliness.
Read these 3 tips on how to get her phone number and your dating life would never be the same.
Tip#1: Find the right timing - The first tip on how to get her phone number is to know when to ask for it. You don't really expect a girl to give her number seconds after introduction right? When you have known her for a long time (and we're talking minutes here, let us say, 30-45 minutes), then it is a good time to ask for her number. If you feel that the attraction is present, then it will boost up your chance of having her number. One of the hardest things on how to get her phone number is the idea of whether she's single or not. You must try to find out by asking her in a subtle manner.
Tip#2: Say it right - So, you have the right timing and she doesn't have a boyfriend. Great! Now, you are on the second step, the asking proper. As all people will say, be confident and try not to sound too desperate or you will increase her doubt and scare her away. Give her an assurance that you are not some psychotic stalker that she is dreading. Try a smooth but straight to point lines. Ask her if she's free for dinner on Friday. Tell her that you really had fun and would want to hang out again with her. Then, ask her permission if you could get her number. Remember to give her a reason on why you're asking her number. Be honest and try to make sense, tell her straight away that you are interested on meeting her again.
T1p#3: Turn the tables and offer your phone number instead - After asking her phone number, expect an outcome. It's either she gives it to you or she makes an alibi. She may tell you that it's not really her nature to give out personal information to guys she just met. Her parents are really strict. She doesn't really trust strangers that much. Well, expect the unexpected.
If all things fail, do what a gentleman would do. Give her your number. Give her your business card as this will make her feel that you are really sincere and you that you are hiding nothing. But, the thing is, you have to accept the consequences. She might not call you back then accept the fact that she may not be interested and move on. But, if the opposite happens, then congratulations and you have succeeded!
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