By Tristan Lee
When dating women, do you ever try to crack a joke and end up getting a weird, raised eyebrow from her? Maybe you got one of those fake, awkward "ha-ha" laughs... If this ever occurs, say goodbye to any sort of seduction technique that you plan on using on her later in the evening.
Like talking to women, making a woman laugh is also a skill set that will help her feel attraction towards you. The formula for laughing is actually pretty simple, but like anything else, it will take some practice. Here are some ways to get her laughing and feel comfortable being around you.
First of all, you need to learn to relax and unless it's an emergency, don't take anything she says too seriously. Have the mindset that she's just a sweet little girl that's trying to hit on you. By doing this, you'll be able to be self-deprecating without any concerns of what she thinks because you don't care - she already likes you. If you can treat her the way you treat your nine year old niece, you'll discover that making her laugh is pretty simple because you'll start naturally coming up with jokes that are funny and stupid at the same time. This will help you in the long run since you can joke like this anytime without concerning about what she thinks of you. She will admire how open you can be and she will be able to open herself more to you, which you can then use to joke around with her. This will make dating women a lot easier.
Once you've treated her like she's a bratty little girl, you need "change things up." If you constantly are throwing the same jokes over and over again, they will get stale fast. Throw in one or two in the beginning and then proceed to something else. There are many ways that you can make a women laugh using humor. But if you absolutely have no clue on how to make a women laugh, here's a quick and simple formula on humor that you can use.
Humor is usually created with 4 different elements - setup, target, tension, and misdirect. On top of this, everything has to be "organic" meaning what you say has to either "relate" or be "believable" (it could actually happen).
Here's an example. You're dating a woman and you guys are having dinner for the first time. "So Ben, she says as she looks at you in admiration, "what do you to do for a living?" This is the setup. "Well... it's kind of something that I take very seriously," you say. This is the target as you are targeting her to think your occupation is something serious like a doctor, lawyer, or politician. "Oh?" she says interested, "Well what is it?" Look at her and pause for 3 whole sections. This is the tension. You sigh saying, "I actually work for... male enhancement?" At this point, she'll most likely laugh and test you if you are being serious, because it might be true. "What exactly is it that you do...?" she asks. Setup again. She'll most likely want a targeted answer like "helping guys build confidence with improving areas of their body." You look at her to build tension, look down on your crotch, look back at her straight in the eye, then cock the biggest smile in your life, slowing saying to her, "Girl, you don't even want to know."
Tristan Lee is passionate about helping guys with dating and seduction. For more tips like these, visit http://www.girlseducer.com.
Source:www.isnare.com |
