By Michael Dat
Everyone makes mistakes and we can accept it, most of the time. But unfortunately, when it comes to MEN making silly old dating mistakes, it is simply unforgiven. Men and women lived together for eons of years, and to not know the right kind of dating techniques will just prove that men have failed to understand women, time and again.
But then, men are not entirely to be blamed, as they do not have the ‘Universal Dating Book' as a guide. So in that case, these men are forever sparred from feministic critics. One of the major problems that women face in men is the oblivious dating mistakes man makes.
You've probably dated a bunch of guys, and surprisingly all of them behave the same way! Then maybe it is not your luck, yet. No one's perfect so no matter how ideal you think your man might be, there is definitely a flaw in him that irks you to death.
Want to score the chick? Then you better put in some serious effort there dude.
#1 The main problem with men is that they are very bad listeners. This of course is not a generalization as there are a handful of great guys out there that listens patiently to all of their spouses' rants and complaints. Well, women do love to talk so learn to listen attentively, instead of interrupting her in between conversation.
#2 Stop being a fake. Yes, men sometimes try a little bit too hard when he wants to impress the girl. If you are the kind of guy that raved a little too much about your nice car, your achievement at work and your pay, then it just part of human's nature to find people such as them bossy and arrogant. It is even worst when you tried too hard and exaggerated a little bit too much and it all comes out as lies. Better watch this out.
#3 Telling lies are definitely one of the oldest tricks that guys use to pick up. Never play with fire or you will get burn. Don't think that your secrets are as good sealing your mouth with scotch tape. Lies will always be lies and don't even try playing games with women. Why would you want to watch her drop her shoulders in disappointment when she sees you walking hand in hand with another girl. Be a gentleman and never hurt another woman's feeling for it will just leave her torn and shattered. You would not want to spoil another person's life, would you?
#4 This is the most common dating mistake: Men who lack initiative and do nothing at all. There are some guys out there who would not bother to do anything to make the relationship flourish and blossom. The weird part is that these are the kind of men that goes around telling people that he does not have girlfriend because girls would not want him. Guys who choose to stay ignorant will realize that they will not go very far in relationships. What girls want are guys that send them good night messages and calls. Women loves attention, and that is final. If guys are not bothered by all these lovey dovey stuff and think that all these is too much of a hassle, then there is no way they are going to go very far in terms of winning women's heart.
So, keep a lookout for these mistakes in you. Tweak your life and attitude and it will sure help you in your dating scene in the future.
Michael Dat specialises in dating techniques for men. Find out the ten most dangerous mistakes you probably make with women - and what to do about it. Visit http://www.datingquestionsformen.com for more dating and seduction tips.
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