By Tristan Lee
Usually people fall under these four type of personalities, and depending on which one you fit under, it might have caused your girlfriend or boyfriend break up with you... You can still get your ex back, however first try look back into your relationship and think what kind of personality you have. Tip - It could be a combination of more than one of the following.
Reserved
Reserved people are usually introverted and like to keep to themselves. Most of these people don't mind not having big social company around them, and are content with their own well being. A reserved person with high self esteem can come off as arrogant to others, while a reserved person with low self esteem can come off as insecure to others.
Would you consider yourself a reserved person? Maybe your girlfriend or boyfriend broke up with you because you were "too reserved" and wanted someone that offered them just a little bit more attention. Sometimes a relationship isn't just about one person having the other person as a girlfriend or boyfriend as a title. Next time your with them, make sure your more opened up with your feelings and they'll start to appreciate that you aren't as introverted and self indulgent as you appear.
Outgoing
Outgoing people love social environments and usually are coined the term "social butterfly." They can't stand staying at home and love out going to places, as long as it's not staying inside the house doing nothing... Many outgoing people like spontaneity and unpredictability, which is why you see many outgoing people at clubs, bars, and parties.
Would you consider yourself outgoing? If you do, maybe your girlfriend or boyfriend was the more casual, reserved type and didn't feel comfortable seeing you hang out with other people risking the chances of you be taken by someone else. As they sat home watching TV, they probably kept thinking about what you were doing and who you were with. Those feeling for them might have been too unbearable. Next time you meet with them, cool down a bit. Focus your attention on them, be the ones to ask them questions, and assure them that they are the ones that you want and no one else.
Casual
Casual people usually are people that don't mind and aren't affected by "drama." They are people that enjoy "going with the flow" of things, especially things that happen in everyday life. They are easy going and usually are very approachable people. Casual people tend to hang out at more easy going environments like bookstores, dog parks, at a friends place, and occasionally the movies. But they tend to hang out less in loud, rowdy environments like those of loud clubs, bars, and raves.
Are you a casual person? Cool, we have something in common. Anyway, maybe your girlfriend boyfriend broke up with because you were "too down to earth." This basically means that you didn't care what happened, were indecisive when they asked what you wanted to do, and did not bring enough excitement and adventure to the table. Next time your with your ex, take the effort to decide on an exciting and fun activity that both you guys can do. Show them that you can be just as adventurous as anybody else.
Emotional
Emotional people have qualities from all of the above, plus drama. They enjoy receiving attention, as well as giving attention and are very unpredictable due to their unstable moods. One minute they'll be jumping for joy and the next crying in bed. Sometimes they can be fun to hang out with but sometimes are very obnoxious. Emotional people can adapt themselves to any environment from a coffee shop to a local club. Wherever they go, drama usually follows them around and thus they depend a lot on people's attention.
Would you consider yourself an emotional person? If yes, the reason your girlfriend or boyfriend broke up with you might have been because you were more dependent on their attention than them being dependent on yours. They may have also had difficulty keeping up with your problems and emotional mood swings, and needed you to be more independent, along with the goal of having a stable relationship. Next time you're with them, don't tell them about your feelings and don't act desperate! Just relax, and enjoy yourself as well as their company. They'll see your independent qualities and instantly be attracted to that.
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