By Maureen Arnold
Every man, at one point in his life, hears those horrible words fall from the lips of a woman, "I just want to be friends." These "Nice Guys" usually have a lot of female friends, but can never get a girlfriend. Chances are, they are making some key mistakes in the world of dating and women.
There are rules to every game, and the game of attraction is no different. Each rule is important in itself - break them all and you will fail miserably with women. Learn them all - and you will party like a rock star.
Rule one - attraction is not, actually, a choice. the first time I heard someone say that, I think it was David Deangelo, I was like wow - that is so simple but its so true. You cannot choose who you are attracted to, and neither can a woman. That can be used to your advantage.
Law two - which sucks if you are NOT an attractive person, but if you are - its cool. Attractive people get the pick of the litter. Attractive women especially can have any man they want, and they know it. They know it because we TELL them, with our corny pickup lines and wussy behavior that we will do anything to get with them. So you better learn to stand out if you want her attention.
The third law is the one that takes the cake. Attraction does not make sense. Ok - so every girl you have ever been friends with dreams of Prince Charming who will sweep her off her feet, shower her in jewels and flowers, and treat her like a Princess. BUT - who is she dating? The jock with no neck that treats her like she is covered in pigskin. Why? because she is attracted to him, and attraction is not a choice!
Law four is often overlooked, but it is crucial. Status counts. No woman is going to be attracted to a man that she thinks is licking the heels of the big ddog in front of him. If you want to get her attention, you have to be an alpha male, the leader of your pack.
So what it boils down to is that women want a real MAN. She wants a man that makes her feel that attraction, whether or not she wants to. If that attraction is not there, she is going to pass by you like and F14. Women don't want the "Nice Guy" - they want the man that makes them feel attraction.
What can you do to stop the attraction killing behavior? There are a few simple steps you can take to get your cajones back and get the girl. One - stop being NICE to attractive women. No compliments, no pleasing her, no gifts, no crap just to make her like you. As a matter of fact - bust on her a bit. Tell her she is a brat. Tell her she is being bad and you won't talk to her until she can be nice.
The second thing you can do to bolster your own attraction is to start saying no to attractive women. Yes, I mean no. Say you are out at the local laundromat and there is a hottie there washing her sexy black lingerie. She asks you for a quarter because she is one short. Tell her no! The after she has quit sputtering, after all, she is used to getting what she wants, give her the quarter and tell her that you changed your mind since she looks so destitute.
Last, but certainly not least - respect YOURSELF. Do not change who you are for anyone, least of all for a pretty face. Don't let her take control or push your buttons for any reason. Respect yourself and people will respect you as well.
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